
What I mean is that way before the days of the internet, long before you found out from the world wide web that toy collecting is actually a popular hobby shared by millions of people around the world. If you had been collecting toys for that many years like me, did you openly let your friends know that your hobby was collecting toys back then?
And when you went to buy your collectible toys at the departmental stores especially, did you some what feel embarassed that you did not bring a young kid along with as your “disguise” as you queued to pay at the cashier?
Very way back in my early years of toy collecting, I found it a bit “weird” to enjoy visiting the toy sections of departmental stores and Toy “R” Us. That was during in my secondary school and junior college years. I stuck out so obviously from the other customers who were mainly parents with their kids.
But since I liked the toys that I collect so much, I managed to develop a “thick skin” over time and learnt to suppress the conflicting thoughts in my mind. During our growing up years, we tend to be influenced by the people around us and we prefer to fit in with the “acceptable social norms” set by our parents and the friends we hang out with.
Of course these days with the internet, we toy collectors know that we are “normal” people (what a relief to know!) with a very decent hobby. It’s now very common to see adults buy toys at any store, and that it’s obvious that they are buying the toys for themselves. Even the staff who work at toys stores no longer find it ‘amusing’ that more adults seem to be collecting toys.
More and more collectible toy shops have also sprung up over the years in Singapore to serve our small but growing toy collectors’ market. We have our weekly Sunday toy market at China Square Central, and now we even have our very own annual Singapore Toy, Games and Comic Convention (STGCC) in our second year!
If you are a toy collector who started this hobby less than 10 years ago, I guess this hobby didn’t seem to bring much or any “social stigma” for you. After all, you knew from the start that there are many toy collectors out there, whose personal collections are more than enough to open their own private toy museums!
For me I have been collecting toys for more than 15 years, so I don’t really know how the newer toy collectors felt in their early years of collecting. To me, I’d already “been there and done that” when you came along. I presumed that seeing “senior” toy collectors like me around in the local toy markets, you perhaps felt more assured about your hobby, and you even strived to surpass our collections. In short, you had some form of “benchmark” to “compare and measure to”.
But let’s say like me, you had started out this hobby with little or no “benchmark” in your circle of contacts (before the days of the world wide web), would you have continued with your toy collecting hobby as the sole “grown up weirdo who still plays with toys”?
Did you know that in my early days of toy collecting, when the cashier asked me if I wanted the toy gift wrapped, I said “yes!”? At least it gave the impression that I was buying the toy as a gift for a kid (who did not exist) and not for myself. That was back in those early days, LOL!
So how about you? How long have you been in this toy collecting hobby? What were your early years of toy collecting like? Free to share your thoughts and experiences here!